Ever wanted to know what goes on inside the male mind during sex? Well, you can stop waiting for your guy to tell you what he's thinking when things get hot and heavy! We have the lowdown on what real men think about kissing, hot dates, foreplay , fantasies, getting busy, and more. On what gets him in a sexy state of mind: "I think my wife is totally hot. She'll point out what she perceives as flaws, but I think she's nuts. Even if I'm not in the mood, I'll catch a glimpse of her taking off her bra, and bam!
What Do Men Think About During Sex? Real Guys Get Honest About Their Thoughts In Bed
TBH, most guys won't give a flying condom about any of these—but everyone's different. You're naked, he's naked, and you're both aroused. The smells, sweat, and sounds can suddenly seem erotically charged-to you, that is. In an Archives of Sexual Behavior study, women who were aroused felt significantly less grossed out by things they normally might be freaked out by. But dudes' level of disgust stayed exactly the same, even in the heat of the moment.
You might think the inside of a man's brain sounds like the buzz of a broken fluorescent lightbulb. Not true. In my humble view, the brain cells of men work like pistons, constantly firing—just like yours. Some of the internal dialogue they produce is quite sophisticated "Why, I detect rosehip and cardamom in this rare Flemmish beer!
So you and your boyfriend have been together for over a year now. You two have been together for so long that it really does feel like you know everything going through his head. You have become one of those annoying couples who finish each other's sentences and can sit in the car for an hour straight without talking because you know exactly what's going through each other's minds. That being said, what men think about during sex is still kind of a mystery to you, and you'd be lying if you said you weren't curious about what goes through his head from time to time. I mean, yes, he's a nice guy who loves you to pieces.