Just because a sex position is considered easy doesn't mean it isn't pleasurable AF as well. Here are some expert-approved super-easy positions for beginners if you want to try them with a female or vulva-having partner, you can always add a strap-on to the penetrative positions to try that are not to be underestimated! Have your partner lie on their back with their head propped up against a comfy pillow. I know, they're basically living the dream right there. Ask them to spread their legs slightly and then lower yourself onto them them, swinging your legs around to the side. You're not expected to bear the weight all by yourself.
But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist , to help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions remain anonymous. It was such a turn-on to feel like I was in control, and my partner was at my mercy. Are there other good sex positions for women who want to take charge during sex?
Everyone wants that! Sit in a chair and have your partner put two fingers on either side of your clitoris, scissoring their fingers together while gently licking or sucking the tip of your clit. Not only does this allow for deeper penetration, but you can have them knead or spank your butt for improved orgasm. Bouncing off your partner can create a feeling that some women find to be super intense in a good way, obvs and leaves the external part of your clit exposed and ready to be stroked with a finger or toy, adds Steinberg.
Sex should never be uncomfortable… except maybe in that hilariously awkward way. Even if position A worked for your previous partner, your new S. How their personal taste aligns with yours will determine comfortable or painful sex. This time, just incorporate our enhanced-for-comfort-and-satisfaction sex positions below. The only prep you need to do — and this is true before every kind of penetration with any partner — is communicate and lubricate!