This website uses cookies. By continuing to browse this site you are agreeing to our use of cookies. The only way to reduce HIV transmission or other sexually transmitted infections during sex is to use a barrier - most commonly a condom. If you are having anal sex, it's important that you use a regular condom which fits your penis, and use plenty of water based lubricant.
As a gay guy, there will probably come a time when a straight guy asks, confused, why you'd let another guy stick his dick in your bum. For anyone inexperienced in arseplay, getting fucked can sound painful and it's hard to imagine how it could be pleasurable at all. Those of you having a good time bending over for some D will know how it can get you harder than ever and have you shooting cum like crazy. Ever wondered exactly why that is? The anus consists of two rings of muscle and a literal buttload of nerve endings. Because of the concentration of nerve endings here, a finger, dildo or dick going inside and stretching the anus is going to be very simulating. Initially, prostate stimulation might make you feel like you need to pee a bit, but this is just your body readjusting to a sexual response from stimulation.
Every guy I've dated has requested anal at some point, even to the point of begging. This experience seems to be ubiquitous in heterosexual relationships. Why do men love anal sex? Does anal really feel that much better than vaginal sex?
Relationships, like produce, milk and reality television stars, have a shelf life. Most couples find that after a few weeks, months, or years, the luster fades and the initial carnal fury that brought them together has dissipated. The moldy codgers who get past this sexual brick wall do so by developing an elaborate series of coping mechanisms.